The initiative, smile, tolerance and understanding

A person who want to be successful must have the following four elements:

Initiative. It means that no matter what we do, we must take the initiative, not wait. One of the things you want, if you lack the initiative to pursue it, it eventually will become other people's. Because things you want is the same as a lot of people at the same time, they and you are a competitive relationship. And any things of you want to get must to go through your action could become the reality, you should take the initiative and the efforts to obtain it.

Smile. This is a life attitude. It reflects your positive and optimistic spirit, but also the important factors of you can give people a good impression.

Tolerance. Each person has his own shortcomings, we need to learn from their advantages. Only the shortcomings can be tolerant of others, we can get along better with them, and improve our own in the process of learn from their advantages.

Understanding. A person making mistakes is unavoidable, as we often committed some mistakes, and no one is willing to do so. Only to understand other people's feelings and pain, and others will help us when we need help, our lives would not lonely, our life was more colorful.

My dream

I have a lot of dreams，Every time when I think of the dream realized I will be very happy, every person，every place and every moment. Every time when I envy of others, I always ask myself why I am not.

I hope I was the great scientists of the world, I wish I were one of the great entrepreneurs, and I hope I can go to any where I wanted to. But there always is a gap between the ideal and reality, and even this distance is large. But I work with them, sometimes I think this is a very long way, the "failure" is no longer a strange concept. No one can have all the things in the world, so I cloud be absentminded some times, I find that my desire is extremely inflated, I felt not only the joys of life but also the feeling of too much sense of loss.

The being of hope is the root of all impetus. Because my dream, I can face each failure optimistically.

No one can save you

No one can save you, but yourself!

I found that I always fail to myself, To do anything must persevere, but it is not the case to me some time. Often there will be some new ideas to change my original plan, even for my favorite things, I can not spend part time on doing it everyday. But I was not idle, my mind always think of a lot of things, time are always passed quickly.

Today, we used high-density resistivity method and seismic exploration method for detection in the wild, my performance was not well, I was embarrassed.

There is not opportunity in any time, it is dishonorable to defeat easily in the competition.

Winter and fairy tales

Today,it is snow. However, I am not aware of, and so when I discovered I fell that everything has become all too fast. winter really come?

Watching the snowflakes were fluttering in the sky, and were thawed on the ground quickly, I recall a lot of things, think of the word--"fairy tale".

I do not know why I always linked to the winter and the fairy tales. Perhaps the Little Match Girl in Andersen works gives me too deep impression, maybe I would like to have that moment in the warmth next to the fireplace in the winter.

Life and lottery

Recently I have been buying lottery tickets, just give me some hope in my humdrum time. Later, two stories let me understand some living truth.

One day, I work out the wild, to see a car's license plate number is 573, I felt this group number is very good, and I intends to buy a lottery when I return home. But I did not do it that day, perhaps I think it is impossible to winning by this three numbers, maybe I was too lazy.

I was surprised the next day when I accidentally found the winning numbers indeed I see yestoday. Of course, the final outcome is, I can not get that sum bonuses. I began to regret it for myself, The fact is I have not got that sum of money in any case, just because I have not done.

This is life, anything is possible if you want to achieve it and do it seriously. Everyone should always believe yourself, and always believe that the day you look forward to will arrival because of your efforts. during the ideal becoms reality, you only need to struggle to your ideal with a unswerving faith.

Another story takes place yesterday. I bought two types of lottery tickets, arrange3 and 3D. Their rules are the same.I bought different number for them. When I look at the winning results, I found the 3D number I bought is the winning number of arrange3 this period.

I suddenly felt that I was fooled by God. I am very sad, the most painful things in the world is not you did not succeed, but success in the places you can see it yet you passed by, and the distance between you and it almost nearly invisible, but you are not successful. I asked myself, when I can be successful? When I can be a lucky? The answer is still "persist, persist and persist again".

What do I want

I was a man who have very consuming appetency, I rarely feel that the presence of a happy because my dissatisfaction with life. Perhaps I was too demanding to my life, but I think this is not a bad thing, a man always try to develop in a good direction, but I found I'm very tired.

I often ask myself really what I want, in fact, I do not know the answer at all. All my efforts is to give my family happy lives, including my parents, sister, girlfriend. Of course, I would have my own small family later. But no matter how did I exert myself, our lives can not always be satisfied, and even some of the most basic issue can not be resolved.

My parents are still lived a uptight life, at the same time, they need to repay debts, what I can do is not to continue to ask for money. My sister needs the money to continue her study, I really want to help her fulfill this wish, and I hope I can give my family a happy future life.

What I really need? Money? No, I need the ability and force to be able to change the destiny and the life, and the courage and willpower to envisage the difficulties and challenges.

My weekend

Today is Saturday,this is my fourth weekend that do not have to go to work. The weekend is very boring now, I can do nothing except surfing on the internet and reading. I feel that the University time is the best.

This morning, I reviewed English sentences I learned a few days ago. I had lunch about twelve o'clock. where I have to eat is the first floor of the shopping center . Although there is not how delicious meals, I often go there to eat.

When I was alone, I often forget to eat.I was not feeling hungry at all and I can sitting in my desk all day.It is overcast today.

When the evening it began to rain. Soon, it was dark, I can not see anything out the window, only those lighting in people's home seemed to be especially warmth. I began to miss my family and my girlfriend. I have at my own home with my family at this time , that is how happy.

My status quo and plan

Yesterday, I received the wage of the third month. The number of wage as many as before. I was somewhat disappointed, because I have been looking forward to unit can give me on wage increases this month,but this is not the case.

I found that my life now is worse than I wanted , of course, I have been working hard to achieve my goal. I would ask myself some questiones every day, and I always constantly remind myself to constantly strive to improve myself. At the same time, I also analyze my shortcomings, and impove myself in later life and work.

I gave myself a plan, which is learning English, mathematics and expertise every day, and using my spare time developing my avocation - painting.

Start again and always insist

I have to work more than three months in Dalian, in a strange city, I am still full of its remoteness, only that the Street is giving me the most familiar.There is a very appropriate sentence, "I like a fly dropped in front of the glass, the future is bright, but there is no way out." . Social life has more pressure than school life, and they are realistic problems that I have to face and work to solve.

There is a question has been bothering me, that is in which vocation I should be engaged . Because I think in the absence of a long-term and set objectives, all efforts seems to be a waste of time, we do not need regular transform work, we need to adhere to do one thing. So I do not know how to choose, to participate in postgraduate examinations or work hard and get registered engineers qualification certificates. If I participate in postgraduate examinations, whether to continue studying the original specialty. I hope that every minute is in effect, but when these problems can not be resolved, I become anxious.

Fortunately, I listened to a speech by Yuminghong a few days ago , the title of his speech called to find hope in desperation. After listening to his speech, I think I can do better, I will be able to achieve my dream. First, I hope to further improve my own English proficiency.The life after graduation is not simple as what I want in schools , everything must start from scratch, what I should do is start again and will never insist. All the success has stemmed from persist. The perseverance is staggering.