In fact, happiness is very simple

This morning, a friend said she and her boyfriend breaking up, and she is very sad.

This evening, a friend called me from start to finish crying constantly, she said she was desperate, until the call ended, she also did not say why, should I listen to her cry?

In fact, we have no reason to grief. Or because a small failures and setbacks and unhappy. Failures and setbacks is a happy, they let us set new goals and start a new effort, without them, we will never feel the joy after less than successful, and can not feel happy life is precious.

We should not despair, should not be sad, we need courage.We need courage and determination to face the difficulties and overcome difficulties.When we lonely, think about our friends, our families, we are not alone. We have a lot to be done, life is good, a lot of good things waiting for us to create.

On the contrary, there are many things in life worth We are pleased, for example, today I finished a working alone, I saw other people's comments to me, and today I share some of her day, I am very happy. They came from another place of the earth, we separated by oceans, our dialogue is to transcend space, Are these not worth our happy?

what are they doing now

When I was alone, I always wanted to know what are other people doing at the moment, they may live in the other half of the Earth, another country or any other place. I would like to have a pair of eyes to see what the two far apart are doing in the same moment, they could be different countries, different nationalities, different ethnic origin. Here is the winter, there maybe is the autumn or the summer, today, it is sun here, maybe there is in the rain, here is just darkness, there may already very late, people may have a rest.

I felt I lost something, no, it should be said that I do not have something, I have a feeling of regret, it is a very strange feeling. I want to know what they are doning now!

Today

Today I was a little bit pleased, China lifted on the Google blog server blockade this afternoon. I can freely open each of the blog, of course, including mine, I have found the kind of feeling of freedom. This increased the interest I wrote blog, because I have seen the hope to continue. Maybe this is also temporary, at least today, I felt the joy of easily browse.

But today I am also a bit unhappy, I would like to know if everyone's feelings are cyclical fluctuations. Load test to be done tomorrow, I must go. I have came to units three months, but I only had three full weekends. In the past few months the largest we have done is load test, followed by seismic image, but I am more familiar with the high-density resistivity method, but this method we used very little.

The evening, I met a university classmates on the QQ, she is now a graduate student in Shanghai, but it seems that she does not like that place. I have always wanted to go there at night to see the overpass and the airport, where China's most prosperous cities, in addition to Hong Kong. But I wanted to go to places that most New York, hope that one day I can go there.

Winter will come soon

The weather is more and more cold, in the office, I also felt my hands are cold. I have not seen snow a few years, the winter of the north is unlike the south, where the temperature is higher than the north, it colud be rain some time, and leaves are green.

From the South to the North only three months to winter, I began to fear cold. Although there is Heating in the indoor and outdoor temperature is very low, we are reluctant to a field. If there are projects to be done outside, we will be forced to a field, but compared to a few months before the number will go out less and less.

During the day in the office can also insist, by the evening I am the only one, I feel particularly cold, but I have a lot of things to be done,so I always go back to sleep very late. Sometimes I really want to go back to sleep in a warm blanket, but I need to finish all things today, tomorrow will be a new day, I am pleased to see that every day has a satisfactory end , I think to develop a good habit is very important. At any time we will be successful because of good habits.

A friend of mine

This guy is my college classmates, we spent in the same quarters four years, we had been sleeping in the upper layer, and we are facing the bedside, he was my best friend in college.

We are most familiar. Because there are many stories between us, Perhaps there is some similarity between us. What character or the other, All in all I think he is a good guy.

He worked in Haikou, and I came to his hometown. There are always a lot of puzzling things in the life, like he and me.

He likes to play basketball, he was black, like stars in the NBA, that is his pursuit.His life is very simple, sometimes feel that he did not seem to be asked, perhaps he always put all the things on the mind. But more often he looked very casual, very relaxed.

Ant the time in the university I often asked him to help, I will be happy to help him, but also some different between us, his life and my life is just a crossover, but I love this friend, and never lost.

The initiative, smile, tolerance and understanding

A person who want to be successful must have the following four elements:

Initiative. It means that no matter what we do, we must take the initiative, not wait. One of the things you want, if you lack the initiative to pursue it, it eventually will become other people's. Because things you want is the same as a lot of people at the same time, they and you are a competitive relationship. And any things of you want to get must to go through your action could become the reality, you should take the initiative and the efforts to obtain it.

Smile. This is a life attitude. It reflects your positive and optimistic spirit, but also the important factors of you can give people a good impression.

Tolerance. Each person has his own shortcomings, we need to learn from their advantages. Only the shortcomings can be tolerant of others, we can get along better with them, and improve our own in the process of learn from their advantages.

Understanding. A person making mistakes is unavoidable, as we often committed some mistakes, and no one is willing to do so. Only to understand other people's feelings and pain, and others will help us when we need help, our lives would not lonely, our life was more colorful.

My dream

I have a lot of dreams，Every time when I think of the dream realized I will be very happy, every person，every place and every moment. Every time when I envy of others, I always ask myself why I am not.

I hope I was the great scientists of the world, I wish I were one of the great entrepreneurs, and I hope I can go to any where I wanted to. But there always is a gap between the ideal and reality, and even this distance is large. But I work with them, sometimes I think this is a very long way, the "failure" is no longer a strange concept. No one can have all the things in the world, so I cloud be absentminded some times, I find that my desire is extremely inflated, I felt not only the joys of life but also the feeling of too much sense of loss.

The being of hope is the root of all impetus. Because my dream, I can face each failure optimistically.